Hey all, so I’m going through this training recommended by my mom for my job. It’s called Restorative Circles.
Basically, as the name implies, its a circle or group of individuals, that go through a learning/restoring process together by exploring different topics such as community building, feelings, listening, assertiveness, problem solving, diversity, and making differences by a exploring a series of readings and activities together.
Side Note: I am a Paraprofessional ( Teachers aide) for Grades PK-2
Any who, During the training we were given a reading by Hugh Prather, an excerpt from his book Notes to Myself (had to look it up because it was a really good excerpt!)
This poem resonated so strongly in me what I want to instill in you about communication in a great relationship.
Communication is not just about talking to your partner, it is about connecting in ways that go beyond verbal conversation. We communicate through body language, we communicate in silence, we communicate through our eyes, we communicate through sighs…..
It’s about being naked and vulnerable and open to your partner, you willingness to expose yourself and share yourself with your partner and having them do the same to you.
It’s transcending from separate identities without holding back bits of yourself.
expose yourself to each other.
in truth if you want to build forever, you need to communicate all parts yourself.
that is the best foundation for you to build on.
Communicate. Build. Trust. Support. Care. Love.