Date Night: Explore

So I was wracking my brain on a good follow through for the last post, intimacy through touch, and I figured some date night ideas on exploring with you partner would be good.

Fun, right!

Get some candles, dim the lights, play your soundtrack that gives you that mellow feel….

Keep in mind:

this kind of intimacy is not sex

it does not have to lead up to sex

you go as far you are comfortable with

also touch can include accessories

exfoliatinggloves.jpg (600×405)Accessories???? Well let’s just say I bought those exfoliating gloves with me on our anniversary getaway and used them during a shower with hubby, it was an experience in itself. I mean being in the shower with one another is awesome. The feel of his soapy hands gliding across my skin, kneading a few muscles here and there, the kisses. The gloves just added a heightened awareness of sensitivities.

Can you say foreplay!

Scarves are a great accessory1eae8d3f3d-flowers-erotic-sensual-sensuel-wow-gotico-PMac2-Rose-daniels-for-me-aaa_large-300x195.jpg (300×195) as well, and you know you have plenty of scarves in the house that would go perfect for a time of exploration. I don’t really need to explain much here, basically your partner is blindfolded either sitting across from you or laying down in front of you. You have the option to straddle or lie/sit next to them. Using fingers, feathers, a rose, or anything you have in mind to use that is soft trace the lines of your partner.

Watch as their breath hitches. Watch as they tremble.

Talk to them. Ask them how they feel.

Take turns.

Sometimes, I like to straddle hubby and look at his face. I trace his eyebrows, his hairline, his jaw, his nose, his lips. I circle his ears and go down to his neck. I caress his cheeks and kiss his eyelids. For me this is relaxing. For me this is an intimate moment for us.

Physical touch can also be a moment of giving your partner a head massage, or playing in their hair in general. Even scratching their beard (I do this often for hubby) and I tell you it’s fun for both.

In that moment of relaxing your partner, you are relaxing as well, you’re both reaching a state of connectivity that will bring you closer to each other than before. Each of these acts are you worshipping in each other, and showing an appreciating in learning each other over and over again.

Trust me, every time I touch hubby it feels like I’m discovering something new and I love it.

Explore. Touch. Caress. Communicate. Love

Intimacy Through Touch

After Saturday’s A-MA-ZIIIIING!!!! orgasmic rounds with hubby and i could finally get my breathing under control (after laying there for a bit and practically falling sleep), we cuddled.

Cuddling is and will always be a great time to be affectionate with your partner.

It doesn’t have to lead into anything, nothing has to be said, it simply is a time to enjoy each others presence, enjoying the act that they are there with you.

For us cuddling comes with trailing fingers and soft kisses, our sweet, sensual caresses.

He started at my shoulder and trailed his finger every so slowly and gently down my arm. there was this one spot near the crease in my elbow that was super sensitive and he made sure to pay attention to my trembling body, how my breath hitched, my body clenched, the ways  my back arched to every other place his fingers seemed to draw these response in my really sensitive or shall i say (erogenous zones)

For Example:

run your hands along her back gif
run your and along her/his curves
caress his/her arms 
A massage is always a good way to explore and learn each others bodies
let you moth discover their lines also
dont forget to taste as you go

Bring a new level of sensuality to your relationship.

Try to touch each other every chance you get, even if it’s just holding hands and exploring your partner’s fingers. Thing about how your hands fit with each other. how strong, delicate, rough, smooth, gentle, or firm they are.

I find it therapeutic to caress my partner. Depending on where we are, take home for example, I’ll sit on his lap, on his back, or behind him with his shirt off and simply explore the softness of his skin, the firmness of his muscles, the strength in his arms. I’ll trace the lines of the tattoos on his chest and arms. I’ll place kisses on his soft spots.

I’ll take a bite from time to time because touching him excites me. It empowers me to know that I can have this strong, beautiful man trembling in front of me, I can bring him moments of peace and relaxation all with a simple touch or kiss.

Take time to explore your partner. Take time to look at them, I mean really look at them. Take time to appreciate what you have right next to you all the time.

Take the time to show your affections.

Touch. Caress. Soothe. Appreciate. Communicate. Support. Care. Love

 

**This is a good site that helps describe in more detail how to increase intimacy through touch with your partner: click here